November 15, 2012 by Margie
At age 20, we worry about what others think of us. At age 40, we don’t care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover they haven’t been thinking of us at all.
- Ann Landers (1918-2002) -
Why do you think women worry about how they look?
- Do women tend to judge other women by how they look?
- Are women bombarded by companies who want them to think that they don’t measure up?
- Do women judge themselves by what is negative, not what is positive?
- Do women pressure other women to conform to an idealized image of what is beautiful?
- Do women equate aging to loss of beauty?
- Do women believe beauty gives them a competitive edge in all facets of their lives?
- Do women fear that men won’t like/love them if they are not beautiful?
- Do women believe that beauty is of more value than intelligence?
- Are women surrounded by media role models who are air brushed, photo shopped beauties?
An example of an Air Brushed and Photo Shopped Model:
Here are some other websites that discuss Distorted Perceptions of Beauty:
Real or Retouched? Distorted Perceptions of Beauty - An excellent example of very bizarre photo retouching.
Chasing Beauty: An Addict’s Memoir by Lisa Hickey- “I want beauty not to matter.”
How much time do you spend trying to make yourself look better?
Do men worry about how they look? If so, why?
For more Women and the Beauty Industry rants from your un-retouched, un-makeupped, wrinkled, grey haired author, go to the post called Don’t Be A Stupid Girl.